Frequently Asked Questions

21 with valid photo ID.

The club has a zero tolerance policy towards illegal substances or drugs of any type. If you are suspected of consuming or possessing illegal drugs, you will be asked to leave the club premises immediately and the relevant authorities may be informed. Failing to comply will result in a lifetime ban.

Phones and cameras are not permitted in the club and must be kept in your locker.

Please do not bring your own alcohol or drinks of any kind, as they will not be allowed inside.

At Cupids, no means no. Anyone breaking this rule will be barred.

Yes, everyone must be 21+ and provide valid photo ID.

For your safety and the safety of all guests and staff, if you appear to be intoxicated you may be refused entry to the club. If you appear intoxicated while inside the club, you may be asked to leave immediately. No abusive language or disrespect towards staff or guests will be tolerated. The club also has a zero tolerance policy towards illegal substances or drugs of any type.

We operate a tab system and all items purchased are paid for on departure. This system is based on trust. If you abuse this trust and fail to pay your bill, the police may be informed and you will be banned.

Absolutely not. Please take your time and enjoy your night.

There is plenty of parking available in the street outside.

Absolutely not. The club is not a “free for all.” Play only happens after consent has been clearly given verbally by everyone involved. Do not assume somebody’s body language means consent. You can do as little or as much as you want. Many people attend for social reasons and may not play at all, so you will not stand out. Spend time talking respectfully to others and if you are unsure about anything, simply ask a member of staff.

If there is an advertised event on the main website, then yes. You can book by contacting the club or through the events page on FabSwingers. For single men, joining the guest list still does not guarantee entry, especially if arriving late. The club manages the ratio of men to women and you may need to wait until space becomes available.

Ladies: Underwear, lingerie, or a towel (towels are provided on arrival). Shoes are optional.

Men: Underwear or a towel (towels are provided on arrival). Shoes are optional.

TV/TS: Dress down to a sexy level or wear a towel provided on arrival. Shoes are optional.

Fancy dress only applies during special themed events.

There is a wide mix of guests and every event is different, ranging from 21–80+. The average age range is usually between 28–40, although younger and older guests attend regularly.

Yes.

Yes.

If you lose your locker key, there will be a £20 charge.

Everyone is given a locker and towel on entry. Your locker key also works as a bar tab, so there is no need to carry cards or cash in the bar areas. Payment is made at the end of the night. The club has a licensed bar selling alcoholic and soft drinks. Condoms are available to purchase, or you may bring your own. There are showers with shower gel, shampoo, and a hairdryer available in the changing rooms. Mobile phones must remain locked in your locker. Both card and cash payments are accepted.

There is a small courtyard area at the back that is not overlooked by the public. Dressing gowns are provided to keep guests warm and the area is heated.

Yes. We encourage safe sex and condoms are available to purchase.