What is the minimum age that you can attend cupids ? 

 21+ with valid photo ID.

What does the club provide?  Everyone is given a locker and towel on entry. Your locker key works as a bar tab so you don't need to carry cards and cash in the bar areas and you pay at the end for drinks. We have a licenced bar selling a variety of alcohol and soft drinks. Condoms can be purchased from the club or bring your own. We have showers with shower gel, shampoo and a hairdryer in the changing room. NOTE: Mobile phones MUST be locked in your locker. We accept Card or Cash payments.

What do people wear? 

Men: Underwear or a towel.

Women: Underwear/lingerie for example Babydolls, Basques, Corsets.

Shoes are optional

Do we need to book? If there is an event advertised on the main website then YES. Book by contacting the club or go on the Events page on fabswingers and request to be added.

 
NOTE: For single Men, adding yourself to a guestlist still does not guarantee your entry, especially if you arrive late. We have to manage ratio of men to women and if there are lower numbers of women in the club when you turn up you may have to wait until a Single male place opens up again. We suggest arriving early. 

Is sex guaranteed / Do we need to have sex? Absolutely NOT!  The club is not a "free for all". Play happens after consent has been given and we suggest this is done verbally by everyone. Do not assume anybody's body language means anything. 
You can do as little or as much as you want, many people attend the club for social reasons and will not play at all so don't worry you will not stand out if you don't play or only play in your couple. Spend time talking respectfully to others and if you're unsure just ask bar staff. 
If you expect to walk into the club and immediately play, this will not be the venue for you. While some people are more open and happy to invite you into a scene, not everyone is comfortable doing this and you are expected to have the ability to understand respectful social etiquette just like in the real world. 
TIP: Don't touch without asking! Don't loom over people playing. Don't be a dick! NO Means NO!

What is the best time to visit? This is a tough question to answer. If you want it to feel busy we suggest attending an event as listed on the website, or a Friday / Saturday night. Wednesdays are couples and single ladies only so good for nervous couples. Weekday daytimes and evenings are quieter, however this often means you can have some great conversations and often less people does not mean less play. Try a few different days and times and you will eventually figure out what you personally prefer. 

** NOTE: We NEVER know how busy a night will be, events are always busier however some weekdays get busy too, others are quiet. We will not give numbers out over the phone so please don't call and ask, the number of customers may increase or decrease before you arrive **

Is there a smoking area? There is a small courtyard area that is not overlooked by the public which is just out the back, we provide dressing gowns to keep you warm and is also heated . Vaping is allowed in the venue as long as it is limited smoke. 

Where can we park? Plenty of on street parking is available. 

Do staff get involved? Staff do not play while on shift. Some staff play, others don't. If they are interested we are sure they know how to let you know themselves. Please don't badger staff or ask them when they are next in the club to play, this is rude. 

​What is the age range of customers?  Everyone from all ages are welcome, and do attend. Predominantly 30-50 make up the larger portion of customers with some younger and some older. Ages ranges from 21-70+